" white women see being submissive or catering to their men as empower, while black women view questioning their men empowering."
this is very true, at least the way i see it.
white women or even women of other races view catering to their man as being fully a woman and taking her role.
black women, or at least from my experience, are taught, or rather shown that questioning their man is what your SUPPOSED to do. many black girls do not have no male figure or have a distant male figure and are taught, by word or example, they do not need a man for anything or to question their men.
in my opinion questioning a man is stupid and pointless. he is still going to do what he wanted to no he has more of a motive.
what i fail to understand is why black women think this is okay. i don't agree that a man makes a woman happy but if you're in love you're bound to be happier. many women sabotage their relationships by questioning their men.
does this statement explain the low rates of marriage in black women?
if this statement is true than I'm definitely not black. i enjoy catering to whomever i'm with. a relationship should be a sigh of relief from hard day not another concern or headache.
i guess im just different. =/
